Need help!!

[MetalicGuy]

I can't get Alizée of my mind.. I spend 90% of the day just thinking at her... i don't know.. maybe i'm just a freak who need to get a life...

Don't know if it is a good thing or a bad thing..

Plz.. give some of your tip how to fill your mind with other things... but i guess that the abstinence will fade in time...

Have you guys also felt this way? well.. i guess some of you...

[Alw]

didn't we all my friend, didn't we all
it took me about a month before that stopped, and it's a pretty tough time, though i have tried it twice! \o :idea:

[MetalicGuy]

oh.. sounds that i will have a tough time for a while...

[Melodramatic]

I can't get Alizée of my mind.. I spend 90% of the day just thinking at her... i don't know.. maybe i'm just a freak who need to get a life...

Don't know if it is a good thing or a bad thing..

Plz.. give some of your tip how to fill your mind with other things... but i guess that the abstinence will fade in time...

Have you guys also felt this way? well.. i guess some of you...
You won't be getting over it any time soon. The addiction can last for several years.

[Ayan]

And you know this how ?

[Melodramatic]

And you know this how ?

You again? :roll: :|

[ArlettyFan]

haha yes that's pretty normal. I am going to other forums, and just trying, really trying to find other artists that cause such obsession. But I have not had much luck. I dont know what it is, but other performers do not seem to spark such interest in them on this level. I'm not going to see this as good or bad, just different :P

[MetalicGuy]

Well.. don't know what to say.. but it is definately special...

[Angelvs]

And you know this how ?

You again? :roll: :|
this is not the first manifestation of problems between you two... let's do this... juts IGNORE each other...

Ayan, that was a totally unprovoked attack... not necessary... not tolerated...

I don't want anyone here attacking any other or arguing about whom started anything... just get over it...

thank you very much...




The Real Angelvs (to activate...)

[Melodramatic]

And you know this how ?

You again? :roll: :|
this is not the first manifestation of problems between you two... let's do this... juts IGNORE each other...

Ayan, that was a totally unprovoked attack... not necessary... not tolerated...

I don't want anyone here attacking any other or arguing about whom started anything... just get over it...

thank you very much...




The Real Angelvs (to activate...)
It'd be nice if we had forum restraining orders here.

[Pawel]

MetalicGuy
Don't fight with it, you won't break the curse ;) We all here are doomed :)

[AKMS]

I'm also thought it will fade... but 8 months passed and I still here ))

[ArlettyFan]

I figure it will fade for some, but not for others. Some don't like change....

[loff]

do not fight it, you'll regret doing that as soon as the dreams starts to show up.. they're the most wonderful thing.. :) i had 3 during the summer.. none that i can remember after that.. 2 of them were pretty personal so i kept them for myself, and the 3rd i posted here long time ago =) you want the "dream period" to last as long as possible..

[MetalicGuy]

Well... my friends are saying that i have freaked out... :lol:

[Melodramatic]

Well... my friends are saying that i have freaked out...

Why don't u infect them with your own addiction.

[DavidAlizée]

or, let them be sad. Why force Alizée into peoples lives if they don't want her. They will only hate her.. is that what you want? lol.. Na but, i would never force anyone to like her.. its their los isnt it.

[Melodramatic]

Did he say his friend dislike her? They just haven't seen the JAM performance yet. :wink:

[DavidAlizée]

Only the strange ones like Alizée for her Jen Ai Marre performance.

[Melodramatic]

Only the strange ones like Alizée for her Jen Ai Marre performance.

It progresses from there. unless they're a bunch of pervies. Nothing wrong w/ liking that performance. It was designed to be liked.

[Jaycubed]

MetalicGuy...It seems like Alizée and her magic has taken hold of you, and before you get into this habit of thinking it's negative and unusual, dare i say "weird", think about it in a positive way.

Has anyone ever made you feel like she does? aren't you happy that you've found someone so beautiful. I think of her all the time. I'm deeply in love with her and it's a feeling i've had and known for a good while now. She's magical, truly unique. It's amazing to have such feelings towards her too, Let her get to you deeply, it's a wonderful wonderful feeling. Being in love with Alizée and just knowing of her is the most important things in my life...call me crazy if you like but that's how it is and i'm so happy it's that way.

Over the recent weeks i've had a stressful time of things. Moving to a new place, living away from home for the first time. Starting University, having run in's with my family and finding out sad things about other members of my family, there could have been many times where i could really have felt bad, down, alone...but i always had what was most important to me, Alizée and my love for her. A reason to keep going and it also put in perspective how little all the other things are in comparison. I knew that nothing's ever that bad when someone like her exists and i feel the way i do about her. She is so amazing and she brings so much light in to my life. She's always in my mind, at the very forefront and loving her has made me such a better person. To anyone that doesn't feel the same this sounds insane, and i don't expect you to understand or even accept it, just respect it.

Does it look like i see feeling the way i do about her as a problem? it's wonderful and i'd never have it any other way. I'm in love with the most beautiful woman there has ever been and will ever be. If that's such a crime...get my cell ready, i'm in for a long stay.

and hey Melo...when has anyone ever been able to INFECT anyone with an addiction? :wink:

[DavidAlizée]

But what do you think Alizée will think about you saying that ? 8)

[Melodramatic]

But what do you think Alizée will think about you saying that ?

i have the same question on my mind.

[Jaycubed]

David...how can i expect to know what Alizée would think...but does that stop the fact i'm in love with her? ofc not.

I can't help how i feel and if you think you can help how you feel, the feelings aren't all that true and real in the first place are they.

Now i just hope you were talking to me

[DavidAlizée]

lol.

Your feelings are not in question Sean. I respect how you feel, unlike you do with me :wink:

However, i am not going to hide and say stuff that people want to hear. I know how you feel about Alizée.. and like i said, i respect that. I thought you of all people know me well wnough to say that, i tell things like it is. what you see, is what you get ( so to speak ). ofc i love Alizée from the bottom of my heart. However, she has flaws like me, like everyone, im sorry you can't face that Sean. Thats what being in love is about, seeing peoples flaws and trying to spot the best possible thing that can come out of the flaws. She has maken mistakes in her life, she is far from a Saint. She will even tell me this herself. I do notagree with the promotion thing, infact it stinks. However, is this going o stop me from trying to visit every concert and try to speak with her ofc not. I have even bought a £25,000 motorhome to take to France just to sepnd as long as possible and go to as many concerts as i can when they happen. Does this mean im Crazy? ofc not. I do draw the line, i love her more than alot of things, but not by all. I dont want her to think i soun crazy, but she has flaws.. alot of them infact, and does everybody else!

[Jaycubed]

flaws....but can those flaws be improved? no...cos if you change any of these "flaws" you change who Alizée is and so she becomes less perfect...

wow the word flaw is so subjective here, you change a so called flaw of Alizée and it takes her away from the person she is...does it make her "better"?

i am not even gonna answer this

[DavidAlizée]

flaws....but can those flaws be improved? no...cos if you change any of these "flaws" you change who Alizée is and so she becomes less perfect...

wow the word flaw is so subjective here, you change a so called flaw of Alizée and it takes her away from the person she is...does it make her "better"?

i am not even gonna answer this

When did i say try to take away these flaws or even change them ?

[Jaycubed]

i didn't say you were, but then if you spot them as flaws, maybe you seem them as flaws cos you know of something better....

anyway come speak to me on msn if you wanna cos i don't want it to appear we're on a postcount mission

[DavidAlizée]

lol, ofc no post count mission. But no to msn, i don't want to argue with you.

[MetalicGuy]

Hm.. What flaws are you talking about for example? :?: :shock:

[DavidAlizée]

nevermind, ur a noob ull never be able to see any. If people think she hasnt any flaws, and think she is a saint, they need medical attention ASAP! I am far from perfect, you are far from perfect, she is far from perfect. How can we possibly say she is perfect when no-one knows her, we know her TV image, thats it.

[MetalicGuy]

aah.. I see.. you mean in that way... yeah that have actually crossed my mind to..
but i really like her.. even if she has flaws or not... but as you said.. not many of us have met her in the real life..

[Ayan]

Belive it or not David, there are people who don't throw words around which they don't mean. Is "perfection" same for every person ? It probably isn't. Just like love doesn't feel the same for every person. But thats already another story. What I'm saying is, perfection in its traditional way is not necessary good or maybe even perfect anymore. Is "perfection" being absolutely flawless - like the statues in ancient Greece, as someone so elegantly put? I think if there are any flaws in Her behavior, looks, voice, whatever, then these are hided pretty well. I haven't noticed any, and I feel like I've known Her for a lifetime. Perhaps some people see Alizée as perfect? Perhaps She is perfect for them? I don't know if I should say this, but I feel like I'm one of those people who really do think Alizée is pure perfection in every way. Her voice is the best ever, the best I have ever heard. And the way She always is, being playable, making jokes, making the hosts of the shows smile and laugh, making the interviewes do the same with Her charm. And the way She can be serious if She wants to. I'm not going to list everything I like about Her personality, however, I do think that the decisions made recently are good, and there is nothing wrong with them. On another note - maybe it's you David, who just cannot understand Her decisions and therefore don't like them? Just a thought.

MetalicGuy, no worries, you are not the first who has felt it, you are not the last who will. It is amazing how She can make you think about Her constantly. I sometimes think thoughts like .. "Hmm, haven't thought about Alizée for 10 minutes, maybe it will be a new record... oh damn". I mean, She is such a great girl isn't She? What's there to worry about, just think about Her, let Her overall beauty charm you.
You weren't sure whether it is a good thing or a bad thing - She has changed the lives of so many people to more good than those same people ever thought could be possible. And She will continue doing the same in the future aswell. People have said how Alizée is affecting them badly, I think they are just kidding. Or maybe you will find that out yourself in the future. And don't worry about things your friends say. If they are real friends they'll accept it. I haven't talked about Alizée to many IRL friends, but to those I have, have only showed great respect towards Her.

It is so great to see that She is being respected among friends, among fellow fans, among forumusers and other people. I just don't understand how can some people not like Her. Or even more, how can some people dislike Her. Are they jelaous, are they hurt, whats the deal? Why are people throwing sh*t at Her, insulting Her, writing bad things about Her? Maybe it's because a disease called 'stupidity'. As the mass old quote once said: " 99% of people are stupid, the rest of them are in constant danger of infection".


Thanks for reading. Someone did read it, right? ... Hello ?!

[MetalicGuy]

Ayan. I've read your last post.. and i have to agree.. we are all different.. and like different stuffs and so on... i could write 1000 rows about this subject.. but i stop now... :P

[Jaycubed]

In all seriousness though man, say as much as you wish, it would be really nice to hear of your feelings and how she makes you feel and why you like her so much.

it would be really cool to hear...such a wonderful person, just let your feelings free.

[MetalicGuy]

Damn! It's hard to express my feelings in words... but I'll try.

When i'm looking to her eyes, it's like looking at endless beauty which make my time stand still every time (mentioned that before i think..)

When i see her smile she gives me happiness and makes the life worth living every day, every minute, every second. She gives me hope of the future.

Everytime i hear her voice, even though i don't understand a single world, i think of happiness, love and.. damn so MUCH!..

Her overall beauty make me tremble everytime i see her. If something bad would happen to her i would feel very bad!

I don't know what it is... obsession, love.. whatever it is.. i only wish her the best. And I respect all she does.

I like her because she radiates so much charisma, happiness, love.. i'm out of words..

If everybody loved her.. there wouldn't be any war and disturbances in the world...

Another thing.. earlier i surfed around on adult pages and you know the rest.... but not any longer... now i realize that it's just empty, disgusting, crap.

Well.. that's some of my feelings for her.. but there's so much more, that words cannot fill...

My english is pretty limited.. hope you can read it anyway...

She is my guiding light :oops:

[Melodramatic]

Damn! It's hard to express my feelings in words... but I'll try.

When i'm looking to her eyes, it's like looking at endless beauty which make my time stand still every time (mentioned that before i think..)

When i see her smile she gives me happiness and makes the life worth living every day, every minute, every second. She gives me hope of the future.

Everytime i hear her voice, even though i don't understand a single world, i think of happiness, love and.. damn so MUCH!..

Her overall beauty make me tremble everytime i see her. If something bad would happen to her i would mourn, If i know she is happy i'll be happy

I don't know what it is... obsession, love.. whatever it is.. i only wish her the best. And I respect all she does.

I like her because she radiates so much charisma, happiness, love.. i'm out of words..

If everybody loved her.. there wouldn't be any war and disturbances in the world...

Another thing.. earlier i surfed around on adult pages and you know the rest.... but not any longer... now i realize that it's just empty, disgusting, crap.

Well.. that's some of my feelings for her.. but there's so much more, that words cannot fill...

My english is pretty limited.. hope you can read it anyway...

She is my guiding light :oops:
I'll make sure the mental asylum has room for you. I'm just kidding :lol: :wink: Your feelings for her right now were'nt that much different from mine's not so long ago. Maybe yours will endure longer (or maybe not). Afterall, she has an image for the pub & the other for her privacy.

[MetalicGuy]

Well.. then i'll spend the rest of my life in the mental asylum :lol: :lol:

Well her image seems to spread so much love to the public.. the least we can do is to give love back..

I'm sure her personality in her private life is great to! I wish her and her boyfriend the best.. (damn.. lucky guy :lol:)

But as i said from the beginning.. i think this feelings will fade in time... good or bad.. the time will tell..

[Melodramatic]

I wish her and her boyfriend the best.. (damn.. lucky guy )

Her hubby actually.

[MetalicGuy]

Her hubby actually.

Is it official? Have tried to search the threads about that but didn't found any concrete stuff...

Well.. in that case.. i wish her and her husband all the best!

[DavidAlizée]

It’s not "official" as in “from the horse’s mouth” ... but there is a cert from las vagas proving they did have some sort of marriage. Maybe not the kinda marriage we know, but some other form. She doesn’t appear to be the kind of girl that will settle for a "back street wedding" so to speak, she comes across as the big white wedding type. Marriages of that type in Vagas are filled with more get out clauses and back doors than a virus. It’s still a mystery why she chose Vagas than a white wedding in France, and why she keeps her love Jérémy a secret when we all know.. ect… But that’s another story.

[Jaycubed]

It's really nice to hear that MetalicGuy...it's great to see her touch someone so deeply like she has to me. And yes it seems very much so like her and Jeremy are married but i don't think that should change feelings for her.

She's the most wonderful person and the way she makes you feel...cherish it cos it's so so special, just like she is. You may well be in love with her, and if so, in my opinion...you're very lucky, just like me. :D

Don't really listen to Melo's off the cuff comments too much, if you are serious about her, take everything he says with a pinch of salt. :wink:

[tern]

Damn! It's hard to express my feelings in words... but I'll try.

When i'm looking to her eyes, it's like looking at endless beauty which make my time stand still every time (mentioned that before i think..)

When i see her smile she gives me happiness and makes the life worth living every day, every minute, every second. She gives me hope of the future.

Everytime i hear her voice, even though i don't understand a single world, i think of happiness, love and.. damn so MUCH!..

Her overall beauty make me tremble everytime i see her. If something bad would happen to her i would mourn, If i know she is happy i'll be happy

I don't know what it is... obsession, love.. whatever it is.. i only wish her the best. And I respect all she does.

I like her because she radiates so much charisma, happiness, love.. i'm out of words..

If everybody loved her.. there wouldn't be any war and disturbances in the world...

Another thing.. earlier i surfed around on adult pages and you know the rest.... but not any longer... now i realize that it's just empty, disgusting, crap.

Well.. that's some of my feelings for her.. but there's so much more, that words cannot fill...

My english is pretty limited.. hope you can read it anyway...

She is my guiding light :oops:

Yep, that's pretty much how it is. And if you're in this deep, I don't think you'll be out for quite a while.

[Jaycubed]

And would you want to be out of this unbelievable deepness?

i know i would never ever wanna be, my deep adoration for her is so amazing and important for me. I'm gonna feel this way for a long long long time and you know what? that makes me feel so amazing..

I never want this to change, i love her, and i love that i do